HOW TO MAKE YOUR RELATIONSHIP LAST?

If you look or search on the graph of marriage, you will find out that the percentage of broken relationship is great. Few only had been successfully cultivated their relationship. And why this thing happens?

In special relationship like girlfriend-boyfriend or in a marriage life, there have six sides of love involved. And what are these? To mention, there are the social side, physical, emotional, intellectual, spiritual and commitment side. Each side must be handled equally in order to have a colorful relationship. The balance of for you relationship and for me relationship are the main keys to have a successful love and family.

Emotion

When someone said, “Wow! What a feeling? Certainly, I have butterfly in the stomach when I see him or her.” Such remark shows emotion. Actually, emotion is the expression of what you feel for someone, but if when it is too much, it can also cloud the mind of the person, to realize that his or her partner is not a good choice.

The Physical Side

When you have a feeling of love, your physical side is also reacted. It is where you somewhat to choose between the good and the evil. In Christian life, it is the most difficult option between doing God’s will, which is against pre-marital sex and your own will. This aspect definitely can affect the other sides when emotion is express through too much physical involvement such as sex. Anyhow, being together most often like having a walk from school, lunch date and others, except sex can also be considered as a physical side activities. Likewise, the social side is added to make the relationship happy and harmony. The social involvement between lovers can still be healthy including your physical even without sex; just holding hands and walking side by side.

In relationship, communications between the partners are also important. This will help them grow and understand each other. Relationship must have intellectual communication and spiritual communication. Intellectual conversation is about talking on feelings, of fears, hopes and dreams they both shared. Spiritual communication is about sharing each philosophical idea about God. Both are very crucial for any relationship, where the more they both lecturing to each other’s feeling, as well as knowing together about Christ, these things can make them closer to each other.

And the last side of love is about commitment. This is on loyalty, sincerity, caring and love. These not only on what she or he sweetly says, yet it is about how a person did to what he or she said. Commitment can only be a guess; however, it is sure for the partners to be committed to each other, when both have security and love, especially if they let Christ middle on them.

Six sides of relationship obviously were not observed by many. Otherwise, great numbers of broken family, grieving children and broken hopes would not be increasing. How sad it can be thinking, but adults are too careless to realize each social responsibility to our community.

Moreover, if you want your relationship last, then ask God’s help the most important, and then apply the right six sides of love in your situation. It should not be too much from each other, but should be having an equal number if not percentage. Good luck and stay as happy as can be with God’s help. I hope I able to share my simple ways of advice on how to make your relationship last forever.

An Advice Need For Desperate Lover

Loving too much can kill you, but loving is likewise, sickening for the one, who loves you. However, if your lover is unfaithful to you. Would you keep him or her, the rest of your life? What will you do, when you have, two timer lovers?
            All people say, “I need love, but nobody loves me.”, such quotable words are pity, to hear, yet, sometimes, its like, a line of the crocodile, crying for a help, to be out, from the water. There had been many people, experiencing and meeting, those kinds of people, like for instance, on my personal experience, my friends’ experience, I mean. Can you help her, out? Your advice will count, for a wearying heart.
            My friend is such, a gentle princess, loving, caring and understanding, and if not perfect, she is good, among the better. She met a guy, she never had dream, to be his lover, but accidentally, and emphatically was because the quotable lines. “I want to love, and to be loved, but no body loves me.” How awful to hear, very pity, yet, it was also the way, where the princess, caught by the snaky puppy, or the pitiful cobra, because it was, the guy, who hurt her, with great pain, she don’t deserve.
            Months and even years, my friends, receives promises, from the guy. But it seems, forever for her, to wait. Now, worst has come, the pitiful man, courted the girls, niece, without her knowledge, except me. I was telling her, about it, but she never listen, because, she is now enveloped, with the loved, which once is gold, but not its color, is fading, because it wasn’t real, but fake. Is anyone out there can, give an advice, to her?
            Leave, a message, and advice, she might read it. What she will do, to her two timer lovers?

Encountering Not So Good Nor So Bad People

No one really can be called as good person, but good and bad will be considered, because these characteristic is always go together in the person’s personality. There is no perfect but it is not anyhow an excuse in order to hurt others. In my life I’ve been meeting different kinds of personality some are nice but not really good but most of them are users and always taking advantage on me. However, am not good too because every time those kinds of people will back fight on me I also reacted not in violently way but simply by just responding the vile they spotted on me back to them. They had done it so they deserve it too. The Bible said, “Vengeance is not ours, but its God,” yeah that is very right, however there are also situations that somehow, urge you to do the things, which not really yours especially, when the people who are throwing you stone are those, whom you think your friends. But they are worst people, who are snake and just pretending to be human. How sad. That’s really sad, in trusting people like them. Full of jealousy that lead them to think against you that you never had done, yet they are saying you did? It is such a disastrous and disgusting people. Full of envy, in their heart, who are trying to ruin relationship of others on friendship, loves and name it. Cheap little monkey why they could not understand that, their life could not be mine and mine could not be theirs. They have an envious heart, look at them when they’re succeed and they will treat you as worm scrolling on the dust. Good luck to them anyway. Encountering not so good nor bad people that would be alright, anyhow since you can learn from them, but please just focus on your own lives. Do not care others lives, especially mine. Just go, go, go wherever you want to be. That’s your life and this is mine. Can’t you see that we’re not related? Anyhow, its your life anyway, I just feel pity about you, of having a small mind. One friend of mine gives me, this line: Small mind talks other people Average mind talks something But with great mind talk knowledge and ideas Search yourself where you belong on these. But what you did in my judgement, you are small mind. Think and improve stand your background don’t step down when it is not necessary, think great things and goodness for others.