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My First Police Encounter

Have you ever tried to be arrested? What was the caused? How you've reacted with the experience? Being nabbed by the authority is not easy, especially if you know that you are innocent. Read this article to learn my personal experience with the unknown robber, the victim, the police officers, my older sister and me.

Last December 26, 2009 it was Saturday, my sister ask me to go with her to buy DVD player and her other needs. First, we dropped by in some stores to choose the items. Yet, she didn't like anything from the first three stores we visited. However, by 1 o'clock in the afternoon, we already bought the DVD player, microphone and the blanket she likes. After that, we were visiting another store, which is selling blouses. And that was where the circumstances begun.

It was exactly 2'0clock pm, we enter the unknown store to buy a blouse of my sister. And because we already brought along the purchased items, we left them at the baggage counter. We were give a number, then we started choosing blouses. We pick one blouse to another, until we reached to a woman, whom aged 47 years old. The woman fitted the pants, blouses and anything she liked to try. Then, suddenly the woman looked at me and then to my sister. Later, she acted like a nervous dog which don't know what to say, and don't know what she look for too. Surprised to her reaction, I guess her mind by asking, "Are you looking for your bag?" And she said, "yes, where is my bag?" We helped her finding her bag, and alas! we've found it just hanging on the blouse stand. I whispered to my sister saying that, "It seems she is stupid. Can you imagine she simply hung her bag as if she's in the house?" And we laugh secretly at her.

We continue our shopping. We choose blouses for my sister, but after 20 minutes or more, the woman whom we helped to look for her bag approaches us, and search her wallet in us. We were shocked but not afraid. We asked her about what she was talking about? Why she is looking for her wallet with us? And she search our bags, and even told the store guard about what happened to her wallet. In short, we were held at the store, until the three police officers arrived. They investigated the case, and later invited us to the police station. I was so angry inside, but I have nothing to do except crying. You know a woman is? Sometimes, being a woman is irritable. We were not ashamed since we know that we are innocent. But we are very upset with that woman.

We ride the police car with a siren. And I told the office to stop it because people at the street were looking at us. And my request, however was granted.

During the investigation, I was so hysterical. I have no idea about it, honestly. I wonder why we were not asked, only the woman was allowed to speak, and it came to my self-realization that we are not the complainant. We were the suspects. And guess what, I even was scolded by the police chief because of my attitude, which I tried to control, yet it just come out. Maybe, because of my disappointment to the situation. Like, I answer even I was not the one being asked, especially when the woman lie. Such manner is not right. But can you blame me? I cried, such police was very harsh too, especially when he tried to link us to the prisoners? Wow! I was really freak.

My mind thought about embarasshment to the people who knew us, especially if our name will be written at the report book or being held at the Carbob Poline Station, Cebu City, with very smelly environment, perhaps toilet room, and to be with the people, who maybe innocent or not. I was also thinking about maybe, we will be released by Monday since that was Saturday. So, we will be sleeping at that station for two to three nights? Anyway, we are innocent, and thank's God we were released after 1 or 2 hours, and also after being searched. And you know what? The woman who accused us was crying. Maybe, she just as if crying so that we will not file a case agains her. We actually not do it. All we want is to go home. I had forgiven that woman for God. But my older sister is really angry to her. I just hope she can forgive her someday. I can't remember the woman's name, since I have no intention to remember her. Yet, I cannot forget her face. She's coming from San Fernando, Cebu City, Philippines. A teacher perse for fourth year high school level in that place.

Such event was really really bad. Before the end of 2009, we were teased by the time. My faith, my control, and my attitude towards the situation. That was a bad experience, and the lessons that I learned from such encounter were; never smile to the strangers. Do not answer when you are not ask. Have faith to God, and learn to forgive, despite of the damage might be done.

Guys when you also come to Cebu or anywhere, please do not just hung your bag at the store. Keep it in your shoulder.  If you loss something because of your mistake, do not accuse anyone, just because they smile at you, or they are too kind on you. The amount of 5,500.00 pesos or more or less not enough to fix anyone's morality, once you damage it.

For that woman from San Fernando, Cebu I have forgiven you. But I want to tell you either you are a victim or maybe that was your modus for Christmas. We are not a robber. I hope you learn also from your own great mistake in life.

Thanks for your reading. That was my first encounter with the police officers.

My Walk With Christ – My Testimony And Reflection

Have I sinned? Yes, I did a lot but am so thankful that God did not see sin on me. What He had seen in me is Christ, who is setting on the very corner of my heart. I am weak because I am human but with the assuring love of Christ in me, I able to stand from my fall. I could not say that I always won temptation; I rather say that Christ had won my fight and struggle in life.

There are many or even a fellow Christian had been judging me through all my failures in life like unsuccessful life project or unfulfilling dreams. They said, “Oh! You are lack of prayer, Oh! You are not faithful to God, and etcetera.” They never know that it hurts my feelings that it hurts my spirit. Anyhow, I only tell God that, “Lord, they don’t know what they’re saying, sorry.”

As human being, sometimes I have concluded that people are judging other through achievements in life. If all your prayers are answered they will say, “Really you are faithful, or oh! Surely God hears your prayer because you are faithful.” That’s good, not bad at all. However, with that manner, what if trials come to their lives? Are they going to say that God has forsaken them? I am so thankful that I know God different from their learning about Him. I ask God that I hope someday, these people will also say some encouraging words, and not a judgmental phrase.

Like a song that says, “He never said, you’ve only saw sunshine, He never said, they’ll be no rain. But He only promises a heart that full of singing.” Yes, there are many dreams that I have, which had not been fulfilled but I never think that am not faithful or God do not listen on my prayers. God says, “For I know the plans I have for you. “ declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” Jeremiah 29:11. That was my stronghold to God, His plan for me. My plan is not His plan; therefore I should be waiting because He said. Matthew 24:35 – Heaven and earth shall pass away, but my words shall not pass away. What a promise. Well, as human being you will cry on your failures. That’s alright. It hurts when you fail, you know. But what matters most is you attitude towards such failures. Learn to accept.

“I cried because I have no new shoes, until I saw a man who has no right foot.” Tears? Is it bad when you let your tears run on your cheeks? Definitely, no! Because even Christ cried. John 11:35 What would you do when you don’t get your wants? Are you going to complain or murmuring, or if not even come into blaming God? Why God, oh Why God?

Base on my personal experiences, feeling distress over your unsuccessful dreams in life is natural. If you have question like why that comes to your mind can be expected, it’s because you are normal. For me it is not bad. However, before you reach into blaming God try also to look around you. What life is trying to show you? What are they things in your surrounding, the people’s life, their sorrows, and compare yourself to them. Are they not suffering floods like what happened in Manila or even to the other side of the world? Have you seen people who are begging on the street, sleeping along the street, with no family, and no homes to shield them from rain or sunlight? Count your blessings, instead. You are not begging, you have comfortable sleep in your house, you are healthy, you have work and anything God provides your need. Most of all you have families; your family in flesh and family of God. How lucky I am. It‘s okay to cry when you feel like crying, but never ever blame God. God is too right to be mistaken, God is too good to be unkind, when you don’t understand, when you don’t see his plan, when you can’t trace His hand, Trust His heart. (Bible)

Walking with God is not always like in the bed of roses. And yet, the comforting truth about Jesus is that you have a singing heart. You have hopes and strength to fight a good fight in life. When my dreams are shattered, it made me cry. Yes, really but am so thankful to the Lord Jesus because He still make my mouth sings praises for Him. I feel sorry because I am human but I only trust His Heart, for I knew He is always faithful, despite of my unworthiness. If I ask why, I only tell myself, “Father knows best.” It is already proven through the testimonies of other Christians, Job, Mary Magdalene, through the thief on the right side of Christ, King David and many more saints.

All I can say is, “Jesus is still working on me." He always worries about me and He loves me.

I Timothy 6:12 - Fight the good fight of the faith.  Take hold of the eternal life to which you were called

How To Handle Fatigue

How could you say that you are healthy? Is it because you don't have cancer or that you are able to do your daily life acitivities? No, you can only tell yourself that you are free from any illnesses, when you are tireless through out your day. I mean, being not so tired at the end of the day. However, if you always feeling weak and tired even at the biggening of your day, it is mean that your physical body is trying to tell you that something is happening in you.

The most common physical problem to human being, which is often disregarded is fatigue syndrome. Fatigue can definitely make your body weak and easily get tired. A little movements, and mental activities, a person who have fatigue will soon get tired. It will make him feel lazy, boring and depress. And when you are fatigue, you always not in the mood to do the things you usually do. Even your hobbies like playing your favorite sport, reading and anything, you no longer have feeling to enjoy it. Fatigue will probably complicate your life.

There are health problems that contribute fatigue, such as hypoglycemia or low blood sugar. These could result to extremely difficult to concentrate on anything you do. Another is hypothyroidism. Thyroiditis is an inflamation of your thyroid gland in your neck, which according to a research result, it can cause you overfatigue.

If you also have a heart problem, anemia, infectious mononucleosis, folic acid defeciency, and infectious hepatitis, these can likewise make you feel weary and fatigue.

Moreover, you can detect fatigue syndrome when you are experiencing some signs and symptoms on dizziness, breathlessness, numbling around the lips, coldness in your extremeties, shaking, nausea, irrregular heartbeat and chest pain.

Sometimes, fatigue is also cause by a depression. This health problem may not need you to come to medical practitioner, but by sharing your problems that made you depress to your trusted friends or confidant, this will probably help you medicated from fatigue.

Most of all, strong faith to God and prayer in Him can give you enough rest that you are longing for. Just also change your attitude of living, observe the foods you eat, and your positiveness in life, despite of the odds.

This is how you can handle your fatigue, and likewise make your health uncompromised.

Stay healthy if you want to get rich because Health is Wealth.

How To Bake Your Delicious Rum Cake

I have a sweet tongue. Anything about sugar, well my mouth already salivated. However, I could not eat a lot, except when a Rum cake is being served. Wow! It is delicious, and so much yummy. It is irresistible, and over the bone indulgent, even to the one who is in diet.  Try also to bake a Rum cake, which is a special dessert from a good baker, Carning Menchaca. This will be for your Christmas Eve.

Here is how to bake your Rum Cake. First, you have to prepare the ingredients.

Ingredients for the Cake:

1 cup finely chopped pecans or walnuts

1 cup coarsely chopped walnuts or pecans

1 package (18.25.oz) plain yellow cake mix

1 package (3.4 oz) vanilla instant pudding mix

½ cup rum

½ cup vegetable oil

½ cup water

4 large eggs

For the Glaze:

4 tablespoons butter

2 tablespoons water

½ cup sugar

¼ cup rum

Procedures:

1. Preheat oven to 325 degree Fahrenheit.
2. Lightly grease with shortening and sprinkle with flour a 12-cup Bundt pan. Slightly shake out the excess flour. Sprinkle the pecans or walnuts on the bottom of the pan. Set aside.
3. Place the cake mix, pudding mix, rum, oil, water and eggs in a large bowl. Blend with an electric mixer on low speed for 1 minute. Stop the machine and scrape down the sides of the bowl with a rubber spatula. Increase the mixer speed to medium and beat 2 minutes more, scraping the sides down again if needed. The batter should look think and smooth.
4. Pour the batter into the prepared pan, smoothing it out with the rubber spatula. Place the pan in the oven.
5. Bake the cake for about 1 hour or until it is golden brown and it springs back when lightly touched with your finger. Remove the pan from the oven and place it on a wire rack to cool for 20 minutes.
6. Run a long metal spatula around the edge of the cake and invert it on a serving platter. Poke the holes in the top of the cake with a cake tester or a wooden skewer.
7. Prepare the glaze. Place the butter in a small saucepan and melt it over low heat for 2 to 3 minutes. Stir in water and sugar. Increase the heat to medium and bring the mixture to a boil. Reduce the heat slightly and let the glaze simmer until thickened, about 4 to 5 minutes, stirring constantly. Remove the pan from the heat and stir in the rum.
8. Spoon the glaze over the warm cake, allowing it to seep into the holes and drizzle down the sides and into the center of the cake. Allow the cake to cool completely before slicing.

Now, enjoy your rum cake with a glass of fruit juice. This certainly floats you in the clouds. Happy eating!

Mommy Dionisia D. On the Spotlight Again

Even you like it or not, Dionisia Pacquiao, now called Mommy D, mother of 7 times world champion in different boxing division Manny Pacquiao is on the spotlight again. Many had been raising their eyebrows for her talent in dancing, and now her acting is also on the big screen, even her singing. I remember on my first writing about mommy D, which called attention of some people where some has negative comments, but some also have tack full phrases about her.

Well, she now proves her best as a mother and a celebrity. And take note with the role as a mother of delicious Sam Milby. Likewise, co-starring of big celebrities like Ai Aid de las Alas and Erap Estrada. You can’t only seeing her dancing on the youtube site, but her role in the movie is another break for her. After so many product endorsements beyond a lot of criticism about her look, acting in the film is such an achievement. But do you know what I like her? It is her natural acting, and her guts to answer, as well as to face the camera without a hint of shyness. She really acted as one of the celebrities in the movie industry. I just hope that Mommy D won’t be blinded, and can’t forget that in the new world, which she now getting into has no real things or no real friendship. Most of all, she should not forget that celebrity world is like a plastic world.

Good luck mother and Bravo, according to Boy Abunda.

What Are Words You Should Not Say At Work

The most safety guidelines in order to avoid conflicts with your co-workers and even to your boss are the phrase that says, “Think first before you speak.” In such a way, you can’t hurt anyone, and especially you will not put yourself in a dilemma.

Moreover, to definitely avoid from any negative comments from your officemates, learn about what are the phrases that you should not say in your work. These words can help you on keeping your job, and even make your boss to think positive things about you.

Make these phrases as your guidelines for your career development. These are very effective and useful for your general improvements. According to Robin Ryan, author of 60 Seconds & You’re Hired! , avoiding these phrases to utter in your office will also help you smoothly climbing to the ladder of success.

Here are samples of phrases that you should not speak out in your Work area:

Cited from Cosmopolitan Magazine, October 2000, page 134.

Don’t say:	Why
“That’s not my area.”	“Employers are looking for people who are flexible, adaptable, and willing to learn anything related to the position, “says Ryan. So, pitch in whenever you’re asked and you’ll reap rewards.
“I’m too busy.”	You’re never to busy to say yes to your boss. If you’re feeling overloaded, chances are that you boss is too, so don’t expect sympathy. Reprioritize and put his or her latest request at the top of you list.
“I don’t know how to do that.”	On the job, saying you can’t is equivalent to saying you won’t. Instead, ask around for advice, consult a manual, or use whatever means necessary to figure out how to tackle the task.
“I totally forgot about it.”	By saying you “forgot” to complete an assignment, you’re either saying you didn’t take it seriously or you head’s in the clouds. Skip the lace excuse and promise to fix the problem to save face.
“I’m going through a personal crisis.”	Don’t blurt out your personal sagas at the office. If it’s a serious issue, request a one-on-one with your boss to explain, but otherwise, don’t expect to be dismissed from work to deal with your dramas.

Well, how do you find it? You think, it helps you to success? Certainly yes, and good luck. Keep on!

How To Choose Your Caregiver

Our loved ones are the most important people in our lives. Our children, elders like parents, grandparents and anyone of the family members who need special cares deserve to be cared with love and compassion. This is the reason why you have to wisely choose your caregiver at home.   

Because of the fast changing life style in our world today, everyone needs to work in order to sustain the needs of their family, and surpass the demands of life. Children have to be left behind the house alone, while parents have to work whole day. Old parents have to be placed in a home for the aged against their will, or maybe they have just stayed behind their home door, and live hungry. Anyone can't be with them while at the same time work. But can’t you feel pity for them? Or the best question is that do you love them? If your answer is yes, then get a good caregiver for them.

Most of the families in all developed country are busy. However, they are hiring someone to be with their kids or elders at home. Some countries like USA, Canada and any other improved states are already hiring caregivers or trusted nanny to care their loved ones. They get caregivers from India, Singapore and even in the Philippines. No wonder the demand of this profession motivates businessmen to facilitate training school that train the aspiring caregivers. Moreover, it is not enough that your prospective caregivers are well-trained, but also they must have qualities of a real caregiver.

There are already many families who already hiring caregivers for their loved ones, but many also had been reported to be abused by the caretakers. Kids are locked up. Old parents were uncared and hungry because of their cruel as well as uncompassionate nanny. There were employers’ loved ones being knocked on their heads, and any other forms of abuses are being done. This is the fact that anyone must considered about hiring caregiver. But what are the bases on choosing your caregiver?

There are many ways that you can detect your caregiver’s behavior. First is by conducting one on one interview. During the interview, you can ask anything that comes out your mind. You don’t need to be professional interviewer, but ask casual questions to bring out your prospective caregiver’s best personality. You have to observe her or his physical response on your question. Look directly through her or his eyes. But do not scare your caregiver. You can also judge them through the choices of their words that correspond to your questions.

Second, check your caregiver’s family background such as family history. If she or he has unpleasant family history, the possibility is she can acquire difficult personality. However, you cannot judge the caregiver that way too. You have to put yourself into the situation and wait to observe how he or she reacted on the situation. In such a way, you can get some clues either good or bad. Still, it is you to judge.

Third ways on knowing your caregiver is that you have to ask her educational background. In the same way, you can learn her or his interest in life that can be possibly adapted by your kids or influence to your elders.

Last but not the least; investigate your prospective caregiver’s behaviors towards the helpless people. Know if he or she is empathetic not just sympathetic one.  If he or she loves children and respect elders. In such away, you can get the idea if who are those good caregivers for your family.

These are the tips that you can apply in choosing your caregivers. Learn and be wise in choosing caregivers for your loved ones.

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I Can Drive My Car..Why Not

Everyone has a dream and this is one of my dreams, which is driving my own car. At first I was so in-loved with a Honda Civic with gray or white or mint green colors. But now, I have my new lover. What a beautiful car for me. This is very feminine, you think so? Take a look at this...very lovely. I can drive my car why not? Soon...

Very terrific. I wish I can have this someday. Its a lust of the flesh I know, but who won't be in-love with this? Surely you too would love this car. Flawless, neat and wow, a smoothly driving one.

Mommy Manny Pacquiao – Fairytale Dionisia Pacquiao

Who is Dionisia Pacquiao? She is nobody but not anymore. She is now known to be the mother of pinoy champ, Manny Pacquiao.If people see her image they could not believe that it is Dionisia, who now a sensation product endorser and a talk of the world. No one ever expect her to reign among all mothers, and surely even herself was also been surprised with what she is now.

No one ever known about Dionisia Pacquiao not until her son decided to enter in the boxing arena.

Way back to the history of Dionisia’s family. Aling Dionisia is an abandoned wife, with children who needs to be cared by her. She worked harder to get enough money for food and their immediate needs. When she was interviewed, it was mentioned that she washed clothes of their neighbors so that she can buy foods. She also brought her children to the sea and gets something that her family can get to survive. You can ever imagine what else Dionisia had done to her life in order to surpass her day to day life challenges with her children. But it is Aling Dionisia’s perseverance, strong faith to God, and her loved to her children are her inspiration to get what she deserves now. It is obvious to her strong and determine image.

During her son’s fight you can’t expect her to watch the show live. You can see her praying so hard that her son would not be hurt. Of course, she is praying for a win but above all is her son’s free from wounds or bruises. She don’t focus too much about the money and crown, rather she is wanted to see Manny’s safety. She is the picture of a mother who always loves her children no matter what, either to loss or to win.

Dionisia Pacquiao, I can say deserve for honor being a great mother. With all the hardship she’d experienced, which resulted to have a successful professional boxer son, who also have a strong faith to God. It is enough evidence that despite of her difficulties she never forget to teach her children some beatitudes and good virtues. She taught them to be strong even in the midst of life struggle. Now, you can see all her glory of being a mother of a boxing champion. Abandoned and isolated wife, but now become a reigning mother in the country.

Yu can see her now smiling, happy and a picture of a contented mother. Seeing her children in good life status, sharing her life to fellow Filipino mothers, and even influencing the people her courage, regardless of her gender. She never ashamed to show the world who she is. A province woman, tongue tied, and with slang accent. She is really the example of a courageous Gabriella.

Dionisia Pacquiaois really have a fairytale mother life, where her love of her children is the only investment. You can watch Cinderella fairytale movie, little mermaid, and name others. But the life of this woman is the fairy like story in the real world.

She can smile now, ride expensive car, wearing fabulous jewelries, even wealthy dress and shoes. Surely these are not all she wants but her children.

Certainly Dionisia Pacquiao is the mirror of great survivor and loving caring mom.

An Advice Need For Desperate Lover

Loving too much can kill you, but loving is likewise, sickening for the one, who loves you. However, if your lover is unfaithful to you. Would you keep him or her, the rest of your life? What will you do, when you have, two timer lovers?
            All people say, “I need love, but nobody loves me.”, such quotable words are pity, to hear, yet, sometimes, its like, a line of the crocodile, crying for a help, to be out, from the water. There had been many people, experiencing and meeting, those kinds of people, like for instance, on my personal experience, my friends’ experience, I mean. Can you help her, out? Your advice will count, for a wearying heart.
            My friend is such, a gentle princess, loving, caring and understanding, and if not perfect, she is good, among the better. She met a guy, she never had dream, to be his lover, but accidentally, and emphatically was because the quotable lines. “I want to love, and to be loved, but no body loves me.” How awful to hear, very pity, yet, it was also the way, where the princess, caught by the snaky puppy, or the pitiful cobra, because it was, the guy, who hurt her, with great pain, she don’t deserve.
            Months and even years, my friends, receives promises, from the guy. But it seems, forever for her, to wait. Now, worst has come, the pitiful man, courted the girls, niece, without her knowledge, except me. I was telling her, about it, but she never listen, because, she is now enveloped, with the loved, which once is gold, but not its color, is fading, because it wasn’t real, but fake. Is anyone out there can, give an advice, to her?
            Leave, a message, and advice, she might read it. What she will do, to her two timer lovers?